Tuesday, May 25, 2010

My Dear Romeo

Born on Valentine's Day, 2001
Passed away on April 29, 2010
at the age of 9




Mommy and Daddy saying goodbye

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How sweet it was to hear him purr for the last time and to hear him talk to me again. This video was taken on the same day that we put him down. Reina, as I mentioned in the video, is his beloved 'wife' who passed away suddenly in December. Ever since then, Romeo had not been the same. He became depressed and hid in the closet most of the day. I knew I should be worried when he stopped eating his wet food. When we took him into the doctors he had dropped from being 17 lbs, three years earlier, to a devastating 9 lbs. We ran tests, gave him several medications, but he kept on losing the weight and stopped eating altogether. After a month of debating what to do for Romeo, we decided to let him pass on to a better place where he could be with Reina again and not be in pain any more. Sometimes I still have flashbacks of Roo and find myself missing him a lot. But he lived a glorious life. There were many wonderful moments.


Here's a tribute to my memories with Romeo:

  • He's my darling Roo. Probably the animal I've had the longest in my life. He was my baby for 6 years. My mom gave him to me for my 22nd birthday. I found him in an animal shelter way back in California. I went into the shelter, as a brand-new convert, asking the Spirit to help me find the kitty I was supposed to adopt. Romeo's cage was in the corner, and the second I heard him meow at me, I knew. When I held him we had an instant bond.
  • A few months later he met his future dad. It took him a couple of months to warm up to Jon once we were married and now living in Utah. However, once that happened I remember Rudakiss becoming a trader and starting to like his dad more than me! (All because his dad was the one who would come home early enough to feed him first. Romeo did love his food. Always begging for more.) You knew Romeo was favoring you because at night he would sleep between your legs, making it impossible to change positions. This drove Jon nuts :0)
  • Rudy did not like to travel, but he was forced to anyway. There was no way we were not bringing all of our kids with us where ever we moved. If Romeo was really nervous in the car he would stick his tongue out like a dog and start panting, but it really made him look like a snake. Romeo started his life in California, had a detour in Provo for 2 years, and finished his final three years in Indiana. He traveled by car to all of these new destinations. Poor thing. He is now buried next to Reina in a beautiful place.
  • He and Reina loved to wrestle. Like clock-work, every night at 10 pm they would take off upstairs and chase and tackle each other. It brought Jon and I so much laughter. It was the best entertainment ever. One day I hope to post of video of their matches.
  • Having Romeo was like having a dog. He would come to a whistle, no matter where he was. He could be around the block and he would still come scurrying to us with his stomach flab swinging to and fro. He was protective like a dog. If we were all outside and a dog came near our yard, he would puff up and try and scare the dog away. So cute. He also liked to go on walks. Whenever Jon and I and the kids would go on walks, he would tag right along. Several times I was able to get him to follow us all the way around the block. So sweet. What a great cat. What a great companion.
  • Rooster was also a master hunter. I learned this right away when I adopted him. Within the first couple of days of letting him outside, he brought home a gift for his new mommy of a nice feathery bird. Then another and another. To Romeo's disappointment a loud, obnoxious bell was placed around this panther's neck. He proceeded to find ways to catch grasshoppers and mice. Once of my least fond memories of his mice catching happened on the day that I brought my first baby Lincoln home. In comes Romeo through the basement window (which happened to be the nursery window!!!!!) with a live mouse in his mouth. Of course he doesn't kill it and lets the dang thing go in my newborn's room. I seriously had a major panic attack and thought my world was coming to an end. Luckily Romeo and Daddy fished the dang thing out of the shoe closet and got it the heck outside. Crazy times. But fun memories.
  • Romeo had a ba-gillion nicknames. Jon and I are suckers for nicknames, so here are a few of his: Rudy, Rudakiss, Roo, Rooster, Reclusakiss (like recluse), Romey, and Romeo cheese. We love and miss you our dear Romeo. See ya in heaven, Rudy.

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Our Easter Stroll



Since we didn't have church on Easter Sunday this year (due to General Conference--which was AMAZING!), we wanted to celebrate the beauty of the day by going on a nice stroll with my mommy over in Plainfield.



Here's my wonderful hubbie. Oh! and baby, too!



Relaxing together as a family on our front porch. It felt so sweet. It's nice to get a break from all our commitments once in a while. We really enjoyed calling family and letting them know how much we love them.



Link: Hey Mom, where did the Easter bunny go? I need more candy.
(what an expression)
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My favorite thing to see...






Look at these great dads all taking care of their kids. Good job men. What a beautiful thing to see.

Wait a sec... where's my guy?

(j/k. he's the one taking the pics ;0)
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What Cuties



Gorgeous Ellie



Doesn't Vincent look so handsome?!



Little Owen. His skin looks so porcelain and smooth.



Ally, I love your spirit!
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No, we were SO close!

Okay, so at the end of Crisco's birthday party I convinced everyone to stick around to play just one round of Guesstures (my favorite game). I totally thought that the girls would kick the boys' boo-tays. (Nichole and I are serious gamers, to say the least.) Little did I know, though, that the guys had some kind of ESP thing going on. I gotta give us ladies some credit, we did end the round tied with the boys. However, when we went into over-time the score ended totally lopsided: 8-12. So sad!



Here are the boys, holding their trophy and gloating in their win! Number one (not!).



The ladies.
(Sorry Miranda that you guys headed out before we took the group pics.)

BTW--next time, we are totally winning...I think.
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Happy Birthday, My Little Christian!


I love you, baby!



The birthday boy. My Easter baby.
Born on April 12th, Easter Sunday. So sweet.



Crisco: Hey Mom, can we have this every day?
I love this stuff!



My sweetheart. He delighted in eating his own cake and loved making a huge mess. It's the only way to go on your 1st birthday.



Crisco: Hey Dad, ya want some! It's the bestest!
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Wednesday, March 24, 2010

My Little Jezabelle

My first calico



What a sweetie she is. She loves to cuddle with me and always wants to sit in my lap, even when I'm feeding Christian. She's great with the kids. Very patient. Even though Christian is still learning how to be gentle (he's on his way, though. He already recognizes the sign when I use it!), she still goes back to him time and again to let him pet her. She loves Lincoln and lets him carry her all around the house. He is such a gentle boy. I am so proud of him.

I love girl kitties. They are so sweet. (Can't wait to see what girl babies are like... he he)



Her many nicknames:
Jezzie
Jezabellie
Jezzers




I love her coloring. Orange, white, and black. She's definitely a little fiery like her orange spots. Our 9 yo kitty Romeo gets intimidated by her when she goes to wrestle with him. Our first girl, Reina, was more his match. We're hoping one day Romeo and Jezzie will become good friends. That would be perfect.
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Our St Patty's Photo Shoot



Okay, let's be honest: I like the flag, but the shadowing is not helping my physique and the positioning is backwards. However, I do love Christian's stoic face!



I look like a mother hen trying to collect her chicks.



Crisco: Really guys, are family photos that important? They're definitely not any fun!

Seriously, Christian's right. Jon and I decided that the next time we try to take family shots, we're not gonna worry if the little kids aren't posing perfectly, and just try to enjoy ourselves so that our smiles are actually genuine. Nothing is worse than off-camera bickering. he he. I laugh now, but it's the pits during. Anybody have any tricks of the trade?



The final four
(not too shabby :0)
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Happy Birthday Grammy Trish!





In honor of your birthday, I put Christian in this shirt that you gave Lincoln when he was this age. I thought it looked adorable with the phrase "Little Prince". Apparently, Christian thought so too with that cute little pose at the top. Can't wait for you to meet the boys in May! I'm sorry it's taken so long. But at least we can look forward to the future. I hope you had a happy, happy birthday!!
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Saturday, March 06, 2010

A Shot Out to Gma T!



Gma T, Lincoln drew these smiley faces all by himself just for you! Hope you like 'em since you are the master of all smiley faces.
I had no idea he even knew how to do this. I love being a mom; it's so much fun when my kids surprise me with something new they can do. Even the simplest things make me so proud.
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Friday, March 05, 2010

Happy Valentine's Day!



-from the spirited Willisons. so matchy, matchy!



(Jon, really. You shouldn't wear your high heels when we take family pictures. It makes me look like a midget! Mercy... It's like I've got my own Redwood tree growing in my house :0)
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Mommy & Link



-dressed up for church and rockin the curly hair-

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Who Does He Look Like?



Daddy or Mommy?



(Should I even ask??)
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